Who are Smart men or Women

I wonder, I wonder, this is a topic I would love to hear from both sides, men and women.  In society things are becoming more equal.  Our grandparents may remember a day when women couldn't even vote.  Now they are running for President, becoming CEO, and also graduating from college at higher rate then men are.  I am a male and I am starting to think that women are smarter.... why because of the environment I am right now as I write this post.  I am at Michigan State right now studying with my fiance and her classmate both females.  They have been here studying since 10:00 a.m. this morning.  I got here at 2:00pm and it is now 5:09pm and I am almost through with my work for the day.  Oh I forgot to mention that they will not be leaving here until 1a.m. in the morning.  The reason they put all of these long hours of studying in everyday is because they are in medical school.  I got to attend these girls white coat ceromony in Grand Rapids.  Out of the 200 students that where welcomed to medical school program 148 of them were woman and the rest were men.  So who is the smarter sex?

How can you make a difference in someone life

The other day I woke up in sort of a cranky mood.  I don't know why I was feeling the way I was feeling I just wasn't happy.  I think we all have those days when we feel like the world is so hard and life just keeps kicking you down every time you try to make a little progress.  For me thing's got, sort of crappy when my job closed and relocated up north leaving me unemployed.  My own personal situation I have to drive a good distance of travel back and forth from school.  My classes aren't going like I like want them to.  Money is so tight for me.  So I just woke up upset about my life.  Anyway as that day continued I stopped at Wendy's to get something to eat but before that I had gotten some gas and I saw a homeless man looking for bottles.  I wondered what things he did in his life that brought him to the point where he is that he has to dig through trash for bottles.  I left the gas station and proceed to Wendy's I sat in there and ate my food still kind of upset thinking about my own life BUT that homeless made it down to Wendy's and he came into the diner room area I think to just get out of the cold for a minute and I looked at him and I saw him bend over and pick up and eat a french fry off the ground that someone had stepped.  I couldn't believe my eyes that man was that hungry that he ate a stepped on french fry.  I walked over to him and said let me buy you lunch.  He smiled, and said thank you he so grateful.  After that I felt good about myself, I had helped someone that was in need.  My problems were not as big of deal anymore.  So my friends what have you done in your life, that has made a small difference?

How do you maintain a good relationship with your children after a break up from their mother

So my question for you and my thought's are as followed.  First, as a man trying to do the right thing by my children, I find myself having a difficult time because their mother is trying to drive me nuts.  It gets so bad  at times, I actually feel like not even bothering to try to see them anymore until they are older.  However, that it not fair to my children.  I try to keep this relationship between the children's mother drama free but drama always seems to find us.  So how would you handle this situation?  Would you take a break from seeing your children?  Why do some mothers of children always seem to give the father of their child a hard time?